Empowering Women: Hospital Birth and Homebirth, Part 2
Editor's note: Following are further responses to Zora's question about
hospital and homebirth in E-News Issue 2:52. Thank you for the many heartfelt
and thoughtful responses!
There is absolutely no comparison between a hospital and a homebirth
experience. Because each one of our ancestors successfully empowered herself
to birth her babies, each one of us is successfully here today. We live
in a fear-based society and allow the powers that be who have gained a
degree to take our God-given power from us. Our society has become wimpy.
Women are living in fear when in truth the process of birth is a normal,
natural, beautiful, worthy, godly experience. Our creator has not left
us alone to bear the future.
Women understand one another. We want to be mothered into birth whether
it be with our own mother or another woman who can share the experience
with us. We want to be nurtured and loved into birth. Ultimately the time
given by a midwife to a mom is much more than that mom would receive from
the hospital experience.
Yes, hospitals do have their place for those times when they are needed.
But it is not natural to administer epidurals, Pitocin, etc. in a normal
birth. We birthing mothers have innate abilities to have our babies if
given the time, patience, love, and quality prenatal care.
Our children depend on each one of us to make conscious choices that
will make the difference in their future as parents. Babies born with
drugs and forced to be born when they are not ready may result in drug
abuse in their future. Please realize what is at stake. Birth is the highlight
of a woman's life. Each life brought here is precious and worthy of the
very best.
- Robleigh, midwife
I am a doula who works in the local small-town hospital. I've had all
of my children at home, but I choose to work with women in the hospital
because that is where most women choose to give birth. It is also where
they feel the most powerless, so it seems that that is where I can offer
the most help.
I never feel as if I've done all I'd like to do. I have to walk a fine
line of cooperating with hospital staff and serving my clients. Frustration
is a constant companion. And if I pursue my goal of becoming a certified
nurse-midwife, I'll only be asking for more of the same. People like us
walk with feet in two worlds. We try to bridge the gap between our dreams
(all healthy women birthing at home) and reality (most give birth in a
hospital). We will always be uncomfortable because we are not wholly a
part of one world or the other. We dream, but we cannot escape reality.
The changes that we make seem small, but I believe their effect is no
less profound than that of our sisters who choose to birth at home. Our
influence will be found tucked in the hearts of women and their families
who have grown because of us. I was once a woman who would not speak up,
would not ask a question. But someone reached out to me and drew me out
of my narrow way of thinking. I've had six children in the wonderful comfort
of my own home. I was blessed because someone else chose to walk between
two worlds. You cannot repay anyone for such a kindness. You can only
pass it on.
- Bonita
I am an out-of-hospital childbirth educator (Bradley Method) whose clients
mostly use hospitals for birth with an OB or CNM in attendance, and want
natural childbirth in a state with the highest epidural rate in the country
(Utah-95%). I strive to remind women of the inherent power and knowledge
their bodies and their spirits have when it comes to giving birth. Perhaps
combining your efforts with a truly loving, empowering childbirth course
would help women have more confidence in dealing with "the system"
and the overall process of childbirth.
A good childbirth course combined with the caring and education a loving
midwife provides can help women remember their inborn brilliance and power
during the birth process. Whether it's a natural birth or if medical intervention
becomes necessary, as Pam England states, all women can learn to "Birth
From Within."
- Adrianna Olnhausen, AAHCC
Salt Lake City, Utah
Yes, most homebirths are beautiful and statistically quite safe. Of course
we should be active in promoting midwifery and tearing down the legal
barriers. However, the reality of the situation is that we will always
need physicians at some point, and in order to work with them we should
proceed gently and instructively, not as an adversary, which only antagonizes
them and results in obstinence and anger. As far as doulas go, one must
review what their role is. It is not to promote one's own personal agenda,
but rather to act as an advocate for what the birthing woman wants. Most
instruction as to options, etc. should have occurred prior to labor. If
a woman has a healthy vaginal delivery after two previous c-sections,
then that indeed should be construed as a "success!" If one
cannot separate her personal opinions and feelings from those of her clients,
then she has no business being in a helping profession of any kind.
- Jane
I am aspiring to become a midwife and have just begun my research and
education on the subject. I want to let Marla Lukes know that her comments
really touched me [Issue 3:1]. She wrote "Many women will know normal
birth for the first time because of you." When I read that, I cried
and was reaffirmed that being a midwife is my journey in life. If I could
make that true for one woman, all of the lifestyle changes and sacrifices
it takes to become a midwife would be worth it.
- Michelle Carroll
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More on Hashimoto's: I contacted a private obstetrician, who advised
regular thyroid function tests (TFT) during my client's pregnancy and
confirmed there was no danger to the baby being born at home. He cooperated
with the tests, billed to Medicare, and consulted with an endocrinologist.
Thyroxine supplement was recommended to the mother, dose to be changed
according to the results of blood tests. The dose remained low, and the
baby was born at home (unexpected breech). I was advised by a paediatrician
that the routine neonatal screening test for thyroid deficiency was sufficient
to check that the baby had enough thyroxine, and that further blood tests
were not necessary. Interestingly, this mother had Hashimoto's with her
first pregnancy, but it was not diagnosed. The baby was healthy.
Treatment is dependent on the different parameters of the TFT results,
so a doctor should interpret these for you. Although my client's disease
was diagnosed late in pregnancy, I was assured that she had enough thyroxine
to supply the baby in its early development stage, so don't worry if you
are already pregnant and haven't been taking thyroxine.
- Marianne Idle
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More on lunar cycles:
In the 1980s I worked as a volunteer midwife in a remote, rural clinic
in Ghana, West Africa. Sometime in the second year of my stay, I collected
birth data for the previous 12 months (some 1,000 births) and plotted
these against the phases of the moon. I think I hoped for a dramatic increase
around the time of the full moon but I didn't get it. The births were
generally evenly spread throughout the month, with just a slight increase
as the moon waxed. I put this down to the lighter nights facilitating
travel over rough tracks. I must emphasise that this project was very
informal--no statistical tests or anything fancy. Just a large sheet of
graph paper, a sharp pencil, and plenty of time in the long, dark evenings.
- Hannah Hulme Hunter
UK
A study was done with sheep who are similar hormonally to humans. It
was found that a statistically significant number went into labor in the
early morning hours before dawn. However I have not found similar results
in nursing research related to humans. A review of births/time/shifts/lunar
cycle at a couple of hospitals did not show any relationship even though
anecdotally the staff reported being "busier" at certain times
of the day and of the month. Stats did not bear this out.
- Jane
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On hypnobirthing:
I collect relevant information and links in the Midwife Archives at
http://www.gentlebirth.org/archives/hypnosis.html
- Ronnie Falcao, LM MS CHT
Go to www.hypnobirthing.com,
where there is lots of information about hypnobirthing, classes, practitioners
and certification seminars.
- Carol Gaudey, R.N., labor and delivery
Music during labour decreases pain by facilitating relaxation. It can
also be used to energize and support walking/dancing and hip swivels.
A variety of music is needed to meet different requirements at different
stages of labour. Earphones can be helpful when contractions are gaining
intensity as the impulse goes more directly to the auditory nerve. Some
women want the volume increased through earphones during a contraction
and the music played free-range between contractions. No music is better
or best for labour--beauty is in the ear of the beholder. And it is this
response to beauty that will release the body's natural pain killers.
Don't forget that we are also instruments. I tone, groan and sing with
women during labour.
- Mary
I studied music therapy for several years. A couple of years later, when
I was pregnant with my first child and armed with all my information,
I made a tape of soothing, relaxing music to get me through my labor.
When labor came I had no interest whatsoever in listening to music. I
just wanted to tune out everything outside of myself and turn "in"
to focus on my body and the baby. In the next couple of weeks, however,
I played the tape over and over again as I snuggled my new baby. I've
become quite attached to it as I've snuggled and breastfed all of my newborns
to those songs.
- Kim
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I do not have access to the Internet and so cannot look up the info on
mortality statistics. If someone would email the information to me at auntie-freeze@juno.com I would
certainly appreciate it.
- E.F.
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In response to the Art of Midwifery column [Issue 3:1]: cabbage is known
to dry up a nursing mother's milk supply. One needs to be very careful
with cabbage application especially in the early days of a breastfeeding
relationship. A better remedy might be to squeeze a little colostrum/milk
on the nipples, gently massage it in and air dry. I would also check mother's
positioning of baby at the breast to be assured that you are not dealing
with a poor latch-on.
- Kathy Pennington RNC,CBE
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From the author of a question about vertical incision c-section [Issue
2:51 and 52]:
I was in fact replying to a question about a woman whose transverse incision
for her first had been modified to a quasi-vertical "j" shape
for her second incision. She was wondering if she could go ahead and have
a VBAC. I was making two points:
1) That a vaginal birth is possible even after a vertical incision.
2) That in cases where the medical profession really doesn't have the
facts and figures, it is usually the case that they err on the side of
caution and decide that it is too risky. That is, we don't have a lot
of statistical information on vaginal births after vertical incisions,
but it seems risky so that is the convention.
On the other hand, many midwives are less cautious and trust more in anecdotal
evidence to confirm that what a client is trying to achieve may be possible.
- Anon.
Phil Watters wrote about VBAC after classical c-sec being just too risky
[Issue 2:52]. In July, at age 41, I gave birth to our VBAC son, my 10th
child who was born after two previous cesareans--a classical in 1997 for
placenta previa and a 28-week baby in a transverse lie who had Trisomy
18 and did not live, and in 1999, an elective cesarean which was lower
segment. You can imagine the reaction of our doctor when we suggested
VBAC for our next baby. The more we read and researched the more we felt
that many doctors really didn't have the full picture, and that their
assumptions are based more on fear than facts. Nancy Wainer Cohen's book
"Silent Knife" was like a breath of fresh air. Then via the
Internet we found some stories from parents who had experienced uterine
rupture.
I have a deep concern for young mothers who are being fed so many fear
tactics that they approach birth just assuming they are going to need
some sort of medical help, when in reality that should be only for the
minority, not the majority. Our prayer is that couples will get back to
the place of understanding that labour and birth are not an illness, but
a very normal part of life, to expect it to be hard work and painful but
to know that the reward is their own son or daughter who has entered this
world without the effect of drugs.
- Debey Dreaver
Qld, Australia
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Re: Virginia Birthing Freedom [Issue 3:1]: Don't all women already have
this right, inalienably? How can anyone legislate where a woman will give
birth? Or where a baby will decide to be born? Can I not choose to give
birth where I will, and can I not choose to have whom I want at my birth?
What about car births? Can a mother be considered in violation of law
if she doesn't make it to her chosen place of birth before her child appears?
What am I not understanding about this situation? It seems scary to me
to pass a law "giving" a woman a right that she already has
by nature. Can someone please help me understand why this is a need, or
what is the situation here that this would be considered a good thing?
- K.
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