Editorial: Education Priority Check
by Jan Tritten
Jan Tritten (right) with Doña Irene Sotelo
[Editor's note: This editorial first appeared in Midwifery Today Issue 60, Winter 2001.]
We do midwifery to help families have good, healthy, and if possible, joyful pregnancies
and births. Our greatest love should be for women and their babies. The bottom line
for you as students and aspiring midwives is to keep your focus on motherbaby—not
on getting your professional degree as a certified nurse midwife (CNM), or approval
from the North American Registry of Midwives (NARM), etc. Your love of women, babies,
families and each other needs to be your focus. You are answering a calling, one
of service, not one that is self-serving. If you don't feel deep in your heart that
you are called to be a midwife, please do something else. This is not work in which
you will make a lot of money. In these times, it is one of the more uncertain jobs
you can undertake.
When I was at the Midwives' Alliance of North America (MANA) conference, I realized
that the focus of some students has moved away from serving women to serving themselves.
My associate editor, Jill, mentioned the difficulty in getting dedicated apprentices,
stating, "These days, everyone is looking for their 'numbers' so that they can
fulfill their NARM requirements and quickly set up their own practice." There
is nothing intrinsically wrong with NARM's requiring a certain number of births,
prenatals, etc., in order to prove competency—it is a wonderful way to train
and educate midwives. However, there is fallout we may not have expected.
I was having lunch with several early arrivals to the conference when one experienced
midwife said, "I'm not going to take apprentices from schools anymore."
Surprised, I asked why. She expressed that these "school midwives" were
focused on their own experiences and numbers rather than on the pregnant women my
friend was serving. A discussion followed that non-school students are looking for
their numbers too. I found it an interesting contrast to the complaint that going
to Jamaica was using women from poorer countries to learn our midwifery and get numbers.
It seems we can stay home and do the same thing. It basically boils down to the spirit
of the practitioner. Ask yourself, "Am I as a student of midwifery serving myself
or the families I am involved with?" What is your motivation? This is an important
question to ask throughout your whole career.
I think I just realized how much things have changed in the 25 years I have been
doing this lifework called midwifery. When I started, we became midwives almost accidentally.
(Isn't that a good name for a movie? The Accidental Midwife.) We set out to help
women have homebirths, period. Our concern was whether we knew enough. We were afraid
we would miss something important. The entire frame of our reference was women, babies,
families, pregnancy and birth. We studied like crazy to make sure we knew enough,
but the bottom line was not our license, profession, career or certification. The
only bottom line we knew was the families we were "serving."
I truly believe when we are talking more about ourselves and our politics and
profession that we have lost the true essence of midwifery. I don't care if I am
at an ACNM (American College of Nurse-Midwives), MANA or Midwifery Today conference,
we should be talking more about birth than ourselves. I exhort you to find a program
that is centered on families, a program that also nurtures you as a student.
Another interesting fashion I noticed is that licensed midwives can get their
license with 50 births, a certain number of prenatal visits, etc. This, in my opinion,
sometimes leads to an arrogance in recently licensed or certified midwives: I have
my credential and you don't. However, many who don't have credentials prefer it that
way. They have done thousands of births over two or three decades of dedication to
women. We have created a "license culture" within midwifery that does not
always honor or learn from the wise women who have gone before. We have fallen straight
into the paternalistic system so prevalent in Western culture.
My hope is that we, as enlightened, alternative thinkers and doers, can somehow
do better. I had hoped there would be mutual respect and a sense of harmony, or better
yet, unity with a lot of diversity.
It has always been Midwifery Today's role to encourage all kinds of midwives,
doulas and childbirth educators. We still do. There is more than enough room for
all kinds of practitioners. We need everyone working to change the way women are
treated in childbirth. For 15 years, one of our main mottos has been, "Each
one teach one." We need a great mentoring spirit in this field. And there must
be respect in these mentoring relationships, respect flowing in both directions.
I ask senior midwives: Please keep taking apprentices. It's a way in which we can
work toward the ideal of one midwife for every mother.
For those who are called to midwifery, there awaits a life that will take all
the love you have to give. You have the awesome honor of being "with woman"
on her most important life passage. You are there, often the first one to touch the
new life sent directly by God to reside awhile on this planet. You are there when
people become a family, when maidens become mothers. This is a powerfully spiritual
experience and you are there. You are a key person in this life-changing passage.
The deepest humility is a necessary characteristic of being a midwife. You will always
be learning because the women you continue to serve are your most important teachers.
Honor them and their babies by putting them first, before your numbers, before your
license—even before yourself.
Toward Better Birth,
Jan Tritten is the founder and editor-in-chief of Midwifery Today magazine and a midwife who was in active practice from 1977–1989. She became a midwife in 1977 after the powerful homebirth of one of her daughters. Her mission is to make loving midwifery care the norm for birthing women and their babies throughout the world. Meet Jan at our conferences
around the world! [ PHOTO BY ANDREA NOLL ]
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